We are a small Episcopal Church on the banks of the Rappahannock in Port Royal, Virginia. We acknowledge that we gather on the traditional land of the first people of Port Royal, the Nandtaughtacund, and we respect and honor with gratitude the land itself, the legacy of the ancestors, and the life of the Rappahannock Tribe. Our mission statement is to do God’s Will in all that we do.

Epiphany 7 – When life is difficult .. loving your enemy

The main idea this week is that of loving your enemy, forgiving, and dealing with anger. The Sermon in 2019 considered Martin Luther King, particularly in terms of relationships when they have gone wrong.

“But Jesus knew that our relationships with other people are not always good ones, and that forgiving someone who hurts us can be an extremely difficult task. And so Jesus frequently addressed these problems we run into when we are dealing with other people. The teaching of Jesus in today’s gospel is an example, when he talks about the importance of forgiving one another and also gives advice on how to deal with those who create anger and hatred in our hearts and sometimes in our actions…

“So here’s how a modern day prophet, Martin Luther King, Jr., handled his justified anger over the injustices that he, his family, and black people all over this nation endured because of segregation in this country and the racist views that perpetuated that unjust system.

“Because he was a Christian, King would not let himself stay bound up in his anger. He said of anger that “if you internalize anger and you don’t find a channel, it can destroy you… Hate is too great a burden to bear.” He put the words of Jesus into action. “Love your enemies.”

“In the NPR article “The Power of Martin Luther King’s Anger,” Nell Greenfieldboyce writes about the time that someone threw dynamite at King’s house. He went rushing home and found that an angry crowd had gathered, some with weapons, ready to take revenge on King’s behalf. King stood on his front porch, talked about the redemptive power of love, and sent everyone home.

“But that night as he lay in bed and thought about how his wife and child could have been killed, he felt his anger rising. But he told himself that he must not become bitter.

“King believed in the power of redemptive love and understood that “Anger is part of a process that includes anger, forgiveness, redemption and love, because if you only have anger, you can’t get anything constructive done.”

“So King helped people channel their anger by engaging in nonviolent protest based on the teachings of Jesus to work for change against the injustices done them.

“Instead of running the other way in the face of danger, or engaging in violence against their abusers, protesters did what Jesus talked about in today’s gospel.

“If someone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also.” By staying put in the face of danger, the protesters held a space open in which redemptive love between them and those who fought against them could potentially take root and grow.”

King wrote an entire book on redemptive love called Strength to Love”. King believed in a better world, but in order to attain his vision we must first face our fears and then master these fears through courage, love, and faith.

Today’s readings emphasize the upside-down nature of God’s kingdom compared to cultural ambitions. In Genesis, Joseph reveals himself and his dramatic reversal of fortune to his once-estranged brothers, a Torah story teaching us that blessing comes through the least among us through their complete reliance upon God. Paul points out the radical challenge implicit in Christ’s resurrected presence with us. In the Sermon on the Plain from Luke, Jesus presents the blessings of the kingdom that reverse the present order of society.

The Old Testament is Genesis 45:3-11,15 describes Joseph’s revelation of his identity to his brothers. Joseph, who had recognized his brothers, had planted a silver cup in his youngest brother Benjamin’s food bag (Benjamin was Rachel’s other son). When the cup is conveniently “found,” Joseph demands that the boy remain as a slave in Egypt. The brothers are filled with sadness because they know that if anything happens to Benjamin, the aged Jacob will certainly die of sorrow.

Joseph is so overcome with emotion when he perceives the repentance of his brothers that he reveals to them that he is their long lost brother. He also explains that he knows that his enslavement in Egypt was God’s way of ensuring their survival from the famine and thus also making sure that God’s promises would be fulfilled.

Psalm 37:1-12,41-42 from the wisdom tradition (like the book of Proverbs) is directed toward teaching people how to lead their lives. From his age and experience (v. 25), the psalmist assures his audience that those who patiently trust in the Lord will soon see righteousness triumph and evil receive its retribution (vv. 10-11).

The psalmist urges the righteous to take their eyes off of wicked people and to focus instead on the richness of their relationship with God. Three times he warns the righteous not to fret, for such anxiety can gnaw away their righteousness and leads to evil. The wicked assume that God is ineffective against their oppression of the lowly, but those who wait upon the Lord will inherit the land just as the people of Israel received the land of Canaan.

The Epistle is taken from Paul’s letter to the Corinthians, 1 Corinthians 15:35-38,42-50. Resurrection is the great sign of transformation, the shape of which Paul expresses through contrasts. These are not mere opposites. Resurrection does not simply reverse our situation or restore something innate. It is an act of “new creation” (2 Corinthians 5:17).

Paul makes clear that physical life, both Christ’s and ours, is important. We bear the image of Adam and we will bear the image of Christ. The physical body is ours from Adam. We inherit his likeness, the image of the man of dust. The “last Adam,” Christ, through his resurrection, has become “a life-giving spirit” (v. 45) for us.

Today’s Gospel reading is from Luke 6:27-38 announces the basic guideline of the kingdom of God: love for all. This principle is applied specifically to the problems of persecution and of possessions. Luke later demonstrates the principle by the examples of Jesus (23:34) and of Stephen (Acts 7:60).

The love called for goes beyond what is fair or right to what is good as expressed in the positive statement of the Golden Rule (6:31). The negative formulation of that rule (“Do not…”) was common in Jewish, pagan and even Confucian writings. The positive form is very rare and much more difficult to observe. Love is offered not in hope of reward, but in response to God’s own nature and our relationship with God, which will be our reward. As we respond to God and to others, so God in turn responds to us.

One difficulty in putting that teaching into action is that some of us aren’t particularly kind to others because we aren’t particularly kind to ourselves. The Talmud teaches, “everyone will be called to account for all the legitimate pleasures which he or she has failed to enjoy.” Sometimes, in our robotic fixation on “what we gotta do,” we are oblivious to the joys of dining, the subtle changes of the seasons, the sweep of the sky and the beauty of the arts. We deny ourselves the pleasure of a long walk, a fascinating novel, a concert or a movie, then wonder why we feel vaguely unhappy. Joyce Rupp, O.S.M. says, “we cannot be too kind to ourselves.”

What Does Love Look Like When Your Neighbor is Your Enemy?

From Diocese of Atlanta series 5 Lenten Questions, 2021

Reflection Guide

Bishop Wright says putting Jesus at the center of your life is learning how to love as God loves, and that when we decenter ourselves…our life becomes agile enough to include those we struggle to love. We can love out of sheer obedience, or through humility, when we realize we too might be an unlovable enemy to others, or through empathy, realizing that some people are trapped and disfigured by their fears, deserving of compassion rather than hate.

Book of Forgiving – Why Forgive ?

Desmond Tutu’s – from the Book of Forgiving. Why Forgive ?

There is nothing that can’t be forgiven and there is no one undeserving of forgiveness.

Forgiveness is the journey we take toward healing the broken parts.

Forgiveness is the way we return what has been take from us and restore the love and kindness and trust that has been lost. With each act of forgiveness we move to wholeness – who we bring peace to ourselves and the world.

Without forgiveness we remain tethered to the person who harmed. We are bound with chains of bitterness. Until forgive, person will hold keys to our happiness

Forgiveness is a gift to ourselves offers freedom from the past, from a perpetrator,from future victimization. Forgiveness as grace -It frees the person who forgives – untethered from the person did harm. You are free to move on in life, grow and no longer be a victim. It enables another person to get up, and get up with dignity tobegin anew

To not forgive leads to bitterness and hatred. Like self-hatred and self-contempt, hatred of other gnaws away at our vitals. Whether hatred is projected out or stuffed in, it is always corrosive to the human spirit.

Retaliation gives at best only momentary respite from our pain and it keeps the cycle of violence going. Until we forgive we remain locked up in our pain without experiencing healing and freedom

Forgiveness is beneficial to our health Recent research shows forgiving transforms people mentally, emotionally, spiritually and even physically. It reduces depression, decrease anger, increases hopefulness. Failing to forgive may be a risk factor in heart disease, high blood pressure. Researchers shown those with strong social circle and unhealthy lifestyle lived longer than those weak social circle but healthy lifestyle

Lectionary – Epiphany 6, Year C

I. Theme – Blessed! 

“Sermon on the Plain” – Sharon Geiser

Blessed is anyone who trusts in the Lord. (Jeremiah) Blessed are you when you are in need.(Luke)

The lectionary readings are here  or individually:

Old Testament – Jeremiah 17:5-10 Psalm – Psalm 1 Epistle – 1 1 Corinthians 15:12-20 Gospel – Luke 6:17-26

In the Old Testament, reading from Jeremiah God, through the prophet Jeremiah, contrasts the fates of the ungodly and the godly. To ancient peoples, the heart was the centre of emotions, feelings, moods and passions. It also discerned good from evil and was the centre of decision-making. Conversion to God’s ways took place in the heart.

In Corinthians 15:12-20, Paul continues his argument against those at Corinth who deny that Christians will be resurrected bodily. He has written of three basic doctrines he has received and passed on: Christ died, was buried, and rose. He now confronts these people with a logical argument. He confronts them with the consequences of their denial and tells the benefits of affirming resurrection.

In Luke 6:17-26, Jesus has ascended a mountain to pray. While there, he has chosen twelve of his disciples to be apostles. Now he descends part-way, to a “level place”. There he finds followers and many others, from Israel and beyond. He tells who will be admitted to his Kingdom – and who will not.

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5 Lenten Questions – Diocese of Atlanta

1. Introduction

Question 1: How to Move Closer to God? Self-Examination | February 24, 2021

Reflection Guide

Self-examination means we pause and check-in with our soul. And we ask our soul two questions: What are my patterns? And, do they increase well-being? Ultimately the practice of self-examination is a gift because it moves us from blindness to gaining new sight.

In this episode, Melissa and Bishop Wright have a full conversation on self-examination, practicing it in our lives, and its importance during the journey of Lent in growing closer to God. This is question 1 of a 5-part series.

Question 2: What to do When God is Silent | March 3, 2021

Reflection Guide

What to do when God is silent, goes the question. But maybe what is really being said here is, ‘God is not speaking to me in a fashion that is convenient or dramatic enough to address my anxieties and hardships.’ Being the anxious creatures that we are, we might be conflating the idea of God’s silence with God’s abandonment or God’s non-existence. But, as we get to know God we learn that silence is really a language for God. A means of communication. And if that is true, then, a mature relationship with God invites us to learn a new language!

In this episode, Melissa and Bishop Wright have a conversation on the silence of God and what that means to us as people of faith in different seasons of life. This is question 2 of a 5-part series.

Question 3: What Does Love Look Like When Neighbor is Enemy? | March 10, 2021

Reflection Guide

Bishop Wright says putting Jesus at the center of your life is learning how to love as God loves, and that when we decenter ourselves…our life becomes agile enough to include those we struggle to love. We can love out of sheer obedience, or through humility, when we realize we too might be an unlovable enemy to others, or through empathy, realizing that some people are trapped and disfigured by their fears, deserving of compassion rather than hate.

Question 4: Where Do I Stand in Sinking Sand? | March 17, 2021

Reflection Guide

Bishop Wright says that it’s impossible to love God without loving neighbor. He says that the way we stand for truth when we feel we are surrounded by falsehood is to close the gap between how we live and God’s truth, so that God’s truths become our lived truths. He encourages courageous questioning of ourselves to find out if God’s truths are being lived out in our lives, particularly looking at whether we want to win/be right or advance God’s truth through love. He exhorts us to find encouragement to live the way of love and truth through Scripture and the cloud of people, our Christian community, who will cheer us on.

Question 5: What are the Directions to Joy | March 24, 2021

Reflection Guide

“Joy is an expression of the genius of God” – Bishop Wright

Bishop Wright says that joy is purple, because you make purple out of red and blue, love and sorrow. He talks about how joy is our present and our future, “a dollop of God’s tomorrow, today.” He says that joy lives with faith, hope, wonder, and gratitude, and that each leads to the others. He says that joy is all around, but we might have to look, as it’s not always easily recognizable.

The Setting of the Beatitudes

“The spacious slope of the Mount of Beatitudes (also known as Mount Eremos, a Greek word meaning solitary or uninhabited) would have provided ample space for a large crowd to gather to hear Jesus”

“Archaeologist Bargil Pixner says: “The terrace above this still existing cave, called Mughara Ayub, must be considered the traditional place of the Sermon on the Mount. The hillcrest of Eremos indeed offers a magnificent view over the entire lake and the surrounding villages. The cragginess of this hill meant it was left uncultivated and enabled Jesus to gather large crowds around him without causing damage to the farmers.”